I prefer catching and releasing with my newly found respect of them and inner relation but if it happens to be a giant wolf spider it is usually not spared because of how fast it is so out of fear death is the the most available response in my household.
my mom and her cousin use to rip the legs off of daddy long leg and put the parts in a little truck and drive it around and then take it to the 'recyling' still to the day i laugh at imagining my mom doing that! :3
One time I got one of those tiny ones in my window and I named him but then I hope need the window and accidentally killed him..... I likespiders, but my family always calls me to kill them. I have dreams about giant spiders either on me or in my house!!